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Kandice, thank you for sharing your story. Â I can relate to what you posted. Â Recognizing your core gift is key! Â I had an interesting reality this evening. Â I took my parents to dinner for my mother’s birthday. Â I opened up and stated that God must be preparing someone really special for me since it has taken 5 years and I still haven’t met anyone. Â My mother looked at me and stated that I would probably remain alone. Â I was hurt by her lack of inspiration. Â It is hard for me to be around my family with their loving couples and be alone. I guess I was hoping for some reassurance. Â It amazes me how much they want and need me to do for them and all I needed was a little hope and inspiration, and instead I was asked to help them. Â I love my parents, but now that I have taken this class, I understand why I am the way I am in intimate relationships! The giver and not receiver. Â This class is helping me to move forward and like teflon, let other’s comments slide right off! Â I’ve had to deal all week at work with a relationship of deprivation too. Â I really appreciate having all of you and Ken willing to support me and my belief that God is preparing me for that awesome relationship that I desire.
Linda