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Hi Kandice,
I definitely think that you CAN change your beliefs about yourself, which will lead to finding the right loving, accepting man for you. Â The fact that you already did something you would not have done in the past (going to the literary event) shows that you are already making changes. Â I think it is fantastic that you attended that event – and glad you had such a great time. Â I think that sometimes in order to change our habitual way of thinking or get ourselves out of a rut, we need to do something out of the ordinary or put ourselves in a unique environment to wake us up.
I haven’t done anything unusual the past two weeks when it comes to relationships (other than remaining open to all the people I meet along the way), but I did find myself in a rut last week when it came to working on my photography business. Â I got caught up for a few days in the business/accounting side of things (which I don’t care for so much) and realized it made all my creativity & positive energy come to a standstill for a few days. Â That is when I decided I needed a little shaking up & needed to do something different from my usual routine. Â Instead of working out at home like usual, I decided to take a pole fit class. Â After that I went and had a massage using a certificate I had for almost 2yrs. Â After doing those things I found myself being really inspired again and was able to think creatively once more. Â I guess the point I am trying to make is that getting out of our comfort zones or doing something different & just having fun can result in bringing unexpected things into our lives like newfound inspiration; friendships; discoveries about yourself; or a great new relationship.